For anyone figuring out who they are before everyone else decides for them

Underneath the layers, the real you is still there.

A two-part kit, a Playbook to read and a Journal to write in, across eight honest phases, from feeling fake to working out what to do with who you are.

Get the Be You Kit

$97 AUD, yours to keep. Free shipping to Australia, the UK and the USA.

Somewhere along the way, you got quieter.

The world has a way of asking you to perform, to shrink, to be the easier version everyone found simpler to deal with. So you did. And your own voice got harder to hear under all the noise.

You're not broken. You got buried, like everyone does. The only question is whether you remember where to dig.

The honest alternative

A quiz gives you a label. This gives you back your voice.

A personality quiz hands you four letters. A self-help book hands you someone else's answers. Be You hands you the questions, and the answers are yours. Nobody grades them. Nobody reads them. The page is yours.

A minute with Charbel

Why this kit, and who it's for.

What arrives

Two parts that work as one practice.

The Playbook

The reading. Eight honest chapters, from feeling fake to working out what to do with who you are, with true stories of people who lived the same questions, the science underneath what you're feeling, and four rules to hold onto when the world gets loud.

The Journal

The writing. Eight phases of questions, one to a page, with room to answer in your own words. No grading, no model answers, no one reading over your shoulder.

Both printed and posted to you, yours to keep. Printed to order, about a week to arrive. Free shipping to Australia, the UK and the USA.

The eight phases

From feeling fake to knowing what's next.

Feeling Fake
Shrinking to Fit
Scared to Try
Saying Yes, Meaning No
Figuring It Out
The Happiness Myth
Your Own Worst Critic
Now What

What changes

The real you, back in focus.

Answer honestly, at your own pace, and the noise that's been talking over you gets quieter. You start to hear yourself think again.

You come back to full size. You were whole before the world told you to shrink, and this is the work of coming back to it.

What it gives you

Your own voice, one honest page at a time.

Hear your own voice again, underneath the performing.
Notice where you shrink, and stop.
Name what you actually want, not what's expected of you.
Meet your inner critic, and take its power back.
Come back to full size, at your own pace.

Written by someone who's done the digging

The questions he wishes he'd had at fifteen.

Charbel wrote Be You after decades of building things, and rebuilding himself each time. These are the questions he wishes someone had handed him early, and the ones he's handing forward now.

Mary Louise Brammer

★★★★★

I came here to learn a range of skills, and I ended up learning about myself and life lessons. It went well beyond what I expected.

Julian Doan

★★★★★

Charbel is an extremely kind and passionate person that I've had the utmost pleasure of meeting. You love your job and the people around you. It's highly infectious, and I'm thankful to have learned from you.

Kim Verbrugghe

★★★★★

Charbel is probably the most likeable and kind person you will ever meet. He has so much patience and would do anything for his students. I would recommend him to anyone. You won't regret it.

Niece O'Connor

★★★★★

His enthusiasm for people is contagious. He has deep experience to draw on and always has something current to share. You'll get more than you bargained for with Charbel.

“This is me. I've built my own ventures, taught thousands of students and helped shape countless companies. My dream is for the entire world to live a happy, meaningful and abundant life. Always learning, always growing, and always curious.”

Charbel A. Zeaiter

Questions people ask.

Who's it for?

Written for 15 to 25 year olds figuring out who they are, and just as useful for parents, mentors, and anyone older who wants the work for themselves or someone in their life.

What's in the kit?

Two parts. A Playbook to read, with the stories, the science and four rules, and a Journal to write in, with eight phases of questions. They work together, and each stands on its own.