Soul · Be You · Identity

Come out knowing exactly who you are.

Eight phases that strip back what was decided for you, so the person building your work is actually you.

A lot of who you are was decided by parents, school, the feed, and everyone with an opinion. That version makes decisions on your behalf every day.

You come out with your own voice back, and a much clearer read on what you actually want to build.

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Digital lands instantly by email. Free shipping on the printed edition to Australia, the UK and the USA.

WHAT'S INSIDE

Two parts. One practice.

One Kit. The Playbook opens up who you are. The Journal is where you work the eight phases, one prompt at a time. Read them instantly as digital, or add the printed editions posted to you.

Included

The Playbook

The thinking on identity, in plain language. What's going on under the performance, the pull to shrink, and the voice in your head, so each phase makes sense before you write.

Included

The Journal

Where you do the work. The eight phases reach you as prompts, one at a time, with room to write. No grading, no model answers.

Working through this with a group? Be You comes as a pack for five, one Playbook and five Journals, for $227. Get the Team Pack.

How it works

Three steps. At your own pace.

Open the Playbook

Read what's going on under the performance, in plain language. No lecture, no script.

Write in the Journal

Answer the prompts honestly. First thoughts are usually truest.

Come back

Work the phases in order or pull a page when you need it. Both parts are yours to keep.

THE METHOD

Eight phases of figuring yourself out.

Eight phases that take you from the performance you've been running to the version of you with no audience. The thinking lives in the Playbook, the writing happens in the Journal.

Feeling fake

Shrinking to fit

Scared to try

Saying yes, meaning no

Figuring it out

The happiness myth

Your own worst critic

Now what?

Who it's for

For anyone working out who they are.

Built first for young people, written so a parent, a mentor, or an older reader gets just as much from it.

It treats you as smart. Honest questions and the space to answer them, at your own pace.

If you're 15 to 25

"Everyone keeps asking what I want to be. This is the first thing that let me work out who I actually am."

If you're a parent

"I can't hand my kid an identity. I can hand them something that sits with them while they find their own."

If you're a teacher or mentor

"It treats young people as smart. No lecture, no script, just honest questions and room to answer."

From people in the work

Built with people who did the work.

I came here to learn a range of skills, and I ended up learning about myself and life lessons. It went well beyond what I expected.

This work lifted my career to another level. Great knowledge and technique, and it helped me grow as a solution finder. I love the passion and energy.

His enthusiasm for people is contagious, which is exactly what I needed. Plenty of experience and examples to draw on, and always a tip or a current example to share.

Things people ask.

A two-part Kit: a Playbook that opens up who you are, and a guided Journal that carries you through eight phases of identity work, with all the prompts folded into the page. Choose the digital Kit and both land as instant downloads, or add the printed edition and we post them to you.